Advice for the angry house wife.

Yesterday i got an email from an old friends account on FB. I saw his name and picture so i got real excited. I have not spoken to him in years. We were good friends in high school. Then we just fell out of touch. So as I'm about to open this email I'm thinking to myself, " Yay!! I wonder what he's been up to. How many kids does he have? And what is his wife like?" She is beautiful from what I can tell in the picture....
Would you believe me if I told you that the email was actually from her not him. Apparently, I sent him an app on FB that was inappropriate. She was angry. I tried telling her that it was not my intention to be rude or step over the line with him and that it would not happen again. I even told her that out of respect for her I would delete him off my FB friends list if that is what she wanted me to do even though I had known him since HS. Well none of this was enough to please her. I felt really bad but she insisted that if it ever happen again SHE would delete me from HIS friends list.
After the conversation i took some time to sit down and reevaluate the situation. I have come to the conclusion that she must be very insecure in her relationship with him to go crazy over a stupid FB application. To this woman and any other woman in a similar situation I would like to say this: If you can not trust your man then why are you with him. By not allowing him to make his own decisions on how to handle a situation like this shows that you can't trust him. It doesn't matter what another woman says or does, if he acts on those urges that makes him at fault. It takes two to tango and if you cant trust the other woman then that means you can't trust your man.
I am sick and tired of women assuming I am trying to steal their men. HELLO wake up and look at me I am a beautiful strong woman. I can have any man I want. Why in the hell would I want yours. Why would I want a man that is attached and always thinking about another woman. I don't understand how these wives can just assume that every single female is after their hubbies. Unless of course hubby did something that made the wife think like this. If that's the case shame on you hubby and shame on you too wife for allowing it to happen and taking it out on every single female that comes along. We are not the enemy here the cheating men are. blame them first then blame the female that actually did it.

This is for the good guys

This is another one I originally posted on my myspace account. It is the sequel to the one titled SEX. I originally posted it on Thursday,February 26 2009.....

To the guys out there that aren't perverted jerks. I just want to say if you read my last blog and got offended I am sorry. That blog was not intended for the kindhearted loving men. To the very few of you that there are I would like to say...
"Thank you for allowing us good women to maintain some hope!" I'm not really that much of an angry person I'm just very frustrated these days. I know there are women out there that give us good women a bad name. Guy please don't get discourage there is a good girl waiting just around the corner for you when you least expect it she will show herself. Well that is all I have to say for now.

sex

I actually wrote and posted this on my myspace account on Wednesday, February 25 2009. I just thought it needed to be repost on here so more of and audience got to read it......

To all the men out there that care to read this: If you want me to just have sex with you keep on walkin it aint gonna happen. I am no ones sex toy. I have a brain. I want a real man, one that cares about the real person I am. I am so tired of guys that walk away when I wont give into their desires. I mean, come on guys, grow up and get a life!!! There is more to me than just sex. I am a loving, caring, patient, beautiful woman that just wants to be happy. I am getting to old for this shit these assholes keep putting me through.

about me

My name is Kylie Cates. I'm a 26 year old single female living in northern Florida. I grew up here so like most natural Floridians I have a nice tan year round only i don't need a tanning bed for it. I have gotten in to my fair share of tough spots in my life, but who doesn't. I feel the only way to be free of them is to learn from them and move on. Do not dwell on the past, that will make you mess up in the future. I was for the longest time desparately searching for the right man. I am now trying a new technique, not looking. I have Native American style beliefs. I am 5 feet 1 inch and a brunette with light grean eyes. I drink a ton of coffee. I love photography and I love to cook. I have 3 beautiful children that I love and adore. Ok I think that is everything about me that I wish to talk about at this moment just though maybe you all would like a little insight to the person you are reading from. May everyone have a blessed day.