Yesterday i got an email from an old friends account on FB. I saw his name and picture so i got real excited. I have not spoken to him in years. We were good friends in high school. Then we just fell out of touch. So as I'm about to open this email I'm thinking to myself, " Yay!! I wonder what he's been up to. How many kids does he have? And what is his wife like?" She is beautiful from what I can tell in the picture....
Would you believe me if I told you that the email was actually from her not him. Apparently, I sent him an app on FB that was inappropriate. She was angry. I tried telling her that it was not my intention to be rude or step over the line with him and that it would not happen again. I even told her that out of respect for her I would delete him off my FB friends list if that is what she wanted me to do even though I had known him since HS. Well none of this was enough to please her. I felt really bad but she insisted that if it ever happen again SHE would delete me from HIS friends list.
After the conversation i took some time to sit down and reevaluate the situation. I have come to the conclusion that she must be very insecure in her relationship with him to go crazy over a stupid FB application. To this woman and any other woman in a similar situation I would like to say this: If you can not trust your man then why are you with him. By not allowing him to make his own decisions on how to handle a situation like this shows that you can't trust him. It doesn't matter what another woman says or does, if he acts on those urges that makes him at fault. It takes two to tango and if you cant trust the other woman then that means you can't trust your man.
I am sick and tired of women assuming I am trying to steal their men. HELLO wake up and look at me I am a beautiful strong woman. I can have any man I want. Why in the hell would I want yours. Why would I want a man that is attached and always thinking about another woman. I don't understand how these wives can just assume that every single female is after their hubbies. Unless of course hubby did something that made the wife think like this. If that's the case shame on you hubby and shame on you too wife for allowing it to happen and taking it out on every single female that comes along. We are not the enemy here the cheating men are. blame them first then blame the female that actually did it.
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Love this post lovey :). I agree with you about q's your man before jumping on one of his friends cases and threatening at them. Sounds like someone needs to trust their hubby a little bit more, or they are a little insecure about themselves, which is kind of sad. For Haha's I'd go so far as to post the angry person's comment/ e-mail on here, just leave out all names and use the terms hubby and wife instead for anon reasons, hehe. That might be funny to read, and we can all see how funny the angry person is. ;)
ReplyDeleteI am trying hard not to alienate anyone here. I cannot put the email on here out worry that i may lose the hubby as my friend.
ReplyDeleteIt was just a momentary thought lovely, don't worry about it. I don't really want to snoop or anything anyway, it was just a funny thought that stuck in my head :).
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