Bad Date

So I went on a date tonight that I was kinda looking forward to but also at the same time really scared about. It was the absolute worst date I have ever had in my life. First of all I am not a shopper and the guy new I wasn't one. He said lets meet at the mall. Not lets go to dinner or lets go to a movie. Lets meet at the mall. Well in hopes that we were just meeting up there I agreed. However I didn't wear anything dressy. Just my best blue jeans a cute shirt and a pair of heals that go with everything. I'm not a make-up kind of girl but I put some on. to me first impressions mean alot so I wanted to look nice for the guy but didn't want to overdress. Well when I got to the designated place to meet. I found him dressed in basketball shorts, a plain t-shirt, and a pair of sneakers. UGH!!!! I was soo embarrassed! So rather than walking out on him like I should have I played nice and asked him what he wanted to do. Well we walked around the mall for about an hour while I talked trying to get on a topic so the conversation would stop being one sided. We went to drop off the truck at my place then went to the beach and walked some more with more one sided conversation. We were at the beach for maybe 15 minutes and I realize I am hungry. So I try hinting to him that I was hungry. He didn't seem to get it. I asked him again what he wanted to do. He didn't say anything. A few minutes went by and Ryan called (thank god). He was off work and was waiting on me to be dropped off. So This guy took me to Ryans work and Ryan and I went home. Is it too much to ask for a guy that is smart, funny, has good communication skills, and will take control at some point. I mean I love being in control but I also want a man that will say "Hey, I like you. Let's go to a movie." Walking is great exercise but on a date it's not enough. I like having fun, joking around, bowling, mini golf, something. Don't just stand there like a bump on a log. And please TALK!!!!! Ladies am I wrong to say if you can't communicate don't bother asking us out?

crazy bum at the beach

I have been to the beach almost everyday this week. There has been absolutely nothing going on. Today, however, I took some kick butt pictures of some surfers catching some waves. It was pretty cool. It was such a beautiful day out. The other night was also a beautiful night. So I though I would take Zorro(my pomeranian) to the beach with me he needed to run. Well he had a blast but one of the bums that lives on the beach didn't find him amusing at all. He didn't do anything to her yet, she found it necessary to threaten and try to kick him. Of course I think of my animals as one of my children so I hollered at her. She told me "I wasn't talking to you. I was talking to your dog." I wanted to laugh so hard at her but instead I hollered at her again. I told her that it didn't matter who she was talking to and that he was my dog. I am ashamed to say I then called her a crazy bitch. I feel bad for it but she threatened my dog. She continued to antaginize Zorro I tried slowing down to let her pass us. She did for a minute then she turned around and started coming back at us continuing to talk shit to Zorro. Then she started yelling at me say that dogs were not allowed on the boardwalk past 9pm but the sign clearly said no dogs on the boardwalk from 9am to 5pm. I tried ignoring her but at this point she was following me and becoming a pain. So I got Zorro in the car and headed home. I didnt know what else to do. If anyone can please help me out here. I would have loved to stay at the beach with Zorro he loves being out there. How should I have handled the situation better.

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Can't find work?!!

Well as many people are finding out there is just about no work to be found anymore. A good portion of our country is on a hiring freeze. The current rate of people without jobs in our country is 7.6%. Florida is 7.6%. California is 8.7% New York is 6.6%. Rhode Island is 9.4 Texas is 5.6. Washington is 6.5%. Because of these percentage rates there are many people everyday losing there homes, going without food and water and even basic medical care.
I myself am part of these statistics. I haven't had a job in 3 months . My last job lasted 2 months and before that I went 5 months with out work. I haven't had health insurance in almost 3 years. I'm a hard worker and can do almost anything I put my mind to but there is nothing to be had at the moment. I want to start my own business but i have to have the capital to do that and i can even find a job. My business wont take much but i need equipment.
Our country is also over run with illegal immigrants that will work for very little money and this too is part of the reason many people cant find work. I'm to the point that I would take as little if i could just find a job. I have put in a bunch of applications and haven't heard anything back. i have called and pestered people. I have also gone to try to put in applications at places and have been told when I got there don't bother we have too many on file as it is and we are on a hiring freeze.
Our president needs to put more troops on the borders and deport all illegals back to where they came from so we the citizens of The United States can have our lives, jobs and integrity back. I am exhausted from continuously searching for a job that has been taken by someone who isn't supposed to have one here.