Bad Date

So I went on a date tonight that I was kinda looking forward to but also at the same time really scared about. It was the absolute worst date I have ever had in my life. First of all I am not a shopper and the guy new I wasn't one. He said lets meet at the mall. Not lets go to dinner or lets go to a movie. Lets meet at the mall. Well in hopes that we were just meeting up there I agreed. However I didn't wear anything dressy. Just my best blue jeans a cute shirt and a pair of heals that go with everything. I'm not a make-up kind of girl but I put some on. to me first impressions mean alot so I wanted to look nice for the guy but didn't want to overdress. Well when I got to the designated place to meet. I found him dressed in basketball shorts, a plain t-shirt, and a pair of sneakers. UGH!!!! I was soo embarrassed! So rather than walking out on him like I should have I played nice and asked him what he wanted to do. Well we walked around the mall for about an hour while I talked trying to get on a topic so the conversation would stop being one sided. We went to drop off the truck at my place then went to the beach and walked some more with more one sided conversation. We were at the beach for maybe 15 minutes and I realize I am hungry. So I try hinting to him that I was hungry. He didn't seem to get it. I asked him again what he wanted to do. He didn't say anything. A few minutes went by and Ryan called (thank god). He was off work and was waiting on me to be dropped off. So This guy took me to Ryans work and Ryan and I went home. Is it too much to ask for a guy that is smart, funny, has good communication skills, and will take control at some point. I mean I love being in control but I also want a man that will say "Hey, I like you. Let's go to a movie." Walking is great exercise but on a date it's not enough. I like having fun, joking around, bowling, mini golf, something. Don't just stand there like a bump on a log. And please TALK!!!!! Ladies am I wrong to say if you can't communicate don't bother asking us out?